How to Use

Communication and Consent

Before incorporating a cane into play, discuss desires, boundaries, and limits with your partner.

Agree on a safe word or signal to stop the activity if needed.

Choose the Right Cane

For beginners: Start with a lighter, more flexible cane like silicone or thin rattan.

For experienced players: Explore thicker or stiffer materials like bamboo or acrylic for a more intense experience.

Identify Safe Impact Zones

Canes should be used on areas with muscle padding to reduce the risk of injury:

• Safe Zones: Buttocks, thighs, and upper back (avoiding the spine).
• Avoid:  Joints, kidneys, spine, head, or any bony areas.

Start Slowly

Warm up with light taps or strokes to prepare the skin and build anticipation.

Gradually increase intensity based on your partner’s responses and preferences.

Experiment with Techniques

• Light Flicks: For sharp, short stings.
• Full Swings: For deeper impacts and more intense sensations (requires practice to control).
• Dragging or Rubbing: Use the cane to trace or press against the skin between strikes to vary sensations.

Observe and Adjust

Pay attention to your partner’s verbal and non-verbal reactions.

Regularly check in to ensure they’re comfortable and enjoying the play.